Listen up ladies and gentlemen, I'm about to teach you a lesson I've learned the hard way. It's a very simple lesson and it comes from the heart; not to mention life experience.
Guys, when a girl (especially your friends girlfriend) gives you friendship, does not mean she wants you in her stomach. Some women find it easier to confide in the opposite sex. Lets be honest, most women give bad advice. That may sound sexist sure, but it's because women think with their hearts. When we, as the more simple species use our brains (when we're not horny that is).
That doesn't make women absolutely innocent either.
What makes you think it's socially acceptable to share your inner most feelings with a man other than your partner? Relationships work best when communication is frequent and fluent. If there's something bothering you, or you're upset, just walk away. Give yourself time to cool down and analyze the situation. Then when you're ready, sit down and talk about your issues with your partner.
You'll find that after your cool-down period, most situations are easy to defuse.
In addition, most people in the world are not out to be your friends. It may seem that way at first but there's almost always a secret agenda. Something they want from you or something they think you want from them. Sex is the most common.
Ladies, confide in your significant other when problems arise. But don't forget that cool down period! If you absolutely must talk to someone other than your partner, seek a girlfriend. One that you know wont hold anything against you or tell your partner via text message 2 minutes after your conversation is over.
Men, same cool down period applies, although ours may be longer and include alcohol consumption.
Most importantly though, if your friends girl confides something in you, take it for what it is and give her the best advice you can. At the end of your talk make sure to mention that it's best if she goes to your friend (her boyfriend) next time. Just to keep things appropriate. Also include that you think your friend would like it if she asked him about these things because it would make him feel that his opinion is important to her.
Don't try to stick it up their backside the first chance you get. Then again, if you try this and it happens she wasn't a very good girlfriend and you're a horrible friend. If you try it and it doesn't happen, you're an even shittier friend.
Rule number 1 in Man Law. Don't EVER fuck your friends girl.
The end.
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